Everything I learned about right and wrong behavior lead straight back to Goofus and Gallant.
Next to Romper Room’s “do-bees” and “don’t-bees,” that dynamic duo from Highlights Magazine served as the guidepost for common courtesy for baby boomer kids, offering them a right way and wrong way of interacting with others.
Long before I could read, my moral compass was set by a smiling Miss Louise who spoke to her virtual classroom on TV’s Romper Room. A popular character on the show was Mr. Do Bee an oversized bumblebee who taught the viewing audience manners.
“Do Bee a smiler… Don’t Bee a frowner. Do Bee a good listener… Don’t Bee a whiner.”
What self-respecting boomer didn’t want to be a Do-Bee!
Getting Along Well With Others
Once I began to read, the Do-Bees were replaced by Goofus and Gallant the recurring magazine cartoon twosome whose example of good and bad behavior offered a template for socially acceptable interactions.
Highlights Magazine was a fixture in every self respecting dentist and pediatrician’s office.
While anxiously waiting to have a cavity filled, I would get a good old fashioned morality lesson from those two illustrated characters whose purpose was to demonstrate acceptable and unacceptable social skills when confronted with the very same situation. “Goofus grabs a toy from others. Gallant asks politely.”
Gallant was always polite, kind, considerate, and mature. Goofus was rude, self centered, disrespectful irresponsible and immature.
The rules on how to behave were as black and white as the drawings themselves.
The choices were clear. No one wanted to be thought of as Goofus.
Well, not everyone apparently.
When it comes to common courtesy and good behavior Donald Trump is Goofus come to life.
Goofus teases those with physical challenges. Gallant helps them cross the street.
Gallant helps the foreign student adjust. Goofus builds a wall to keep him out.
Goofus mocks and bully’s his classmates. Gallant respect’s others opinions.
If you had told me that one day boorish, Goofus would be the presumptive Republican candidate I would have laughed in total disbelief. But that is just what we find ourselves in now. A childish bully who can’t seem to get along well with others is bullying his way into the White House.
Last night on Megyn Kelly had her famous sit down with Trump and when the Fox newscaster tried to ask whether anyone had ever bullied or hurt Trump emotionally, he answered, “When I am wounded, I go after people hard, OK? “And I try to unwound myself.”
No matter how hard she tried to evoke some sense of regret or introspection about his bad behavior he said he didn’t “think it was healthy” to apologize for making fun of John McCain, Carly Fiorina, Heidi Cruz or even Megyn Kelly herself.
“Bimbo?” she asked when he said he hadn’t re-tweeted “the more nasty ones.”
“Ooh, OK, excuse me, Trump said without a hint of apology. “Over your life, Megyn you’ve been called a lot worse.”
Spoken like a true Goofus.
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HAH! I use to love Highlights Magazine Sally! Before I make my comment on your final subject matter — somehow I knew it would get around to (t)Rump 😛 — I want to say how much I enjoyed their “Hidden Pictures” page(s)! For my age then, those objects were sometimes very well hidden. That would always be the very FIRST page I’d jump to! Thank you for the wonderful memory Sally! 😉
Ahh, Goofus. He truly wants to portray a mentality of ‘I don’t give a shit about people, or certain people.<' There's major problem #1. 'There is nothing I need to change or refine about myself.‘ Major problem #2 — everyone has something flawed, something in need of improving, repairing, or overhauling. ‘Money is what makes life better; the more the better.</em' Major problem #3 — value is found in many forms, not simply wealth. ‘There are never-ending resources to exploit from others and the planet — that’s competition and capitalism, and I’m the best at doing it.‘ Major MAJOR problem #4 — delusional arrogance. And as you’ve aptly pointed out Sally… ‘I know how to treat women, especially “proper” women.‘ Massively major problem #5 — despite his horrible track-record in marriages (with models), in PUBLIC anyone can play the role of Mr. Gallant quite well if they have experience in front of a camera and can pander to an audience. Duh.
I could list probably a plethora of other serious (t)Rump “problems”, but I know you get the idea Sally — you portray very well here in your blog! ❤
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Grrrrrr… my apologies once again for my erroneous HTML editing Sally. There’s something I need improving on! Hahaha. Would you be so kind as to add a “>”… in my above comment at the end of “the more the better” please? 🙂
It was just too irresistible not to compare Trump to Goofus,. Another favorite feature in Highlights was “What’s Wrong” where unusual objects take the form of normal things throughout the picture, and the reader is instructed to find the various objects that are wrong. It is easy to imagine Trump in this format
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Ooooo… an excellent comparable analogy Sally!
How many subjects — outside of Dog-Eat-Dog corporate business ethics and People-Chiding 101 — do you think (t)Rump could talk about intelligently with other scholars of that field? 😛
I not only remember Romper Room. I also remember Captain Kangaroo and Mr. Rogers. Too bad we don’t see their like today.