Having an affair ain’t what it used to be.
Now that Ashley Madison client base has been hacked, the world’s leading on-line dating service for married people has sent many a cheating spouse scrambling.
It’s a heart breaker for those who ascribe to the website’s belief “Life is Short. Have an Affair.”
Your Cheating Heart
Although the 14 year old service AshleyMadison.com ( “when monogamy becomes monotony “) which sets up extramarital trysts have made cheating more accessible, electronic tracking devices from e mail to EZ passes have made straying trickier.
You would think that before the advent of cell phones, texting, computers, credit cards, ATMs and other tracking devices, cheating would be a breeze.
But apparently for an earlier generation a book was needed to help the straying spouse with a wandering eye navigate the slippery slope of cheating.
Mister & Mistress
For the low price of $1.98 post war cheaters wanting to finagle romance could send away for a book Mister and Mistress: A Guide to the Etiquette of Off the Record Romance
Advertised in the back of men’s magazines next to sex guides and marriage manuals, this book from 1949 taught the tricks of two timing: “Know How to do the ‘Wrong’ Thing The Right Way”
Things intimate…personal things the neighbors mustn’t know
Its authors Edith Sheldon and Dayton James explained to the prospective reader: “We have outlined numerous situations, in any one of which you may find yourself sooner or later. We think you will agree that our rules for handling these situations are based on sound sense and good taste. But if you do not agree you have only to follow the opposite course.”
“And see where that lands you.”
Mister and Mistress lets you in on many secrets. “Here is a book you will cherish. Its technique will amaze you. Its frankness will startle you! The Simon pure will raise their eyebrows!”
It’s hilarious! It’s helpful. It’s hep!
Have you… Were You…. Did you?
Posing a series of questions to the would-be-cheater they ask:
Ever talk in your sleep?
Ever find it hard to explain?
Ever keep a “Stud Book”?
Ever have a “Blind Date”?
Ever pay with I.O.U.’s or try to?
Ever hire an Escort?
Ever gather “Forbidden Fruit”?
Ever walk back from a “Joy Ride”?
Ever been a “Fall Guy”?
Ever argue with a bootlegger?
Ever “Fumble” for the luncheon check?
Ever play “Mr and Mrs,”?
Ever been a correspondent?
Ever curious about sexual matters and has your curiosity led you into strange adventures?
Ever “Lost Your Head” in an emergency?
Ever wish you had learned the manners and social graces needed to mix with others on many levels?
Ever play with fire?
“If you answer NO to all of these questions,” the ad firmly states “do NOT send for this book, SEND FOR THE UNDERTAKER!”
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